A deeper experience

Masturbating is so different when you are stimulating your prostate instead of just jacking off. I used to just jack off, though not that often – probably a lot less than a lot of guys. When I did, though, it was usually spontaneous – I just felt like it and went ahead and did it. Usually it was over in a few minutes. I often didn’t even take my pants off – just pulled out my dick and started stroking it. I didn’t feel much at an emotional level. But since I discovered prostate pleasure, masturbating means using a butt plug or vibrator to get off. It takes more energy but it’s so much better – more intense, more emotional and more satisfying.

When I masturbate now it’s all about being in the right mood. I have to relax and get in the right headspace. I usually have a shower and always get naked, which I never was did I used to jack off – and, as you’ll know by now if you read this blog, it also goes on for a lot longer. It’s like it's a whole experience instead of just a five-minute thing you do and you’re done. Sometimes I don’t have the energy to masturbate, which never happened when I was just jacking off. All in all, it’s a lot more like the way women describe masturbating – another way in which prostate pleasure is a lot like female sexual pleasure and can help men understand female pleasure far more deeply.

I think the reason why masturbating is so different when you are stimulating your prostate is that you have to put yourself in a vulnerable state. You have to literally open up – mentally as well as physically. That’s why it takes so much more preparation – you have to go through that process of opening up. Having a shower, relaxing, getting naked – it all kind of helps get you to where you’re ready to masturbate. I guess you can just shove a toy in your ass, but if you’re not ready mentally, you won’t be ready physically, and it won’t be enjoyable. Stimulating my prostate feels much more intense physically than jacking off does, but I think it’s also somehow more mental.

Maybe because of all that, masturbating now feels like a much deeper experience than it did when I used to jack off. It’s literally deeper – the physical pleasure I experience is deep inside me instead of just in my dick. I even feel like when I get horny now, I feel it physically in a different way – I feel it deeper inside me and I am much more aware of my PC muscles tightening than I used to be. But when I masturbate now it also feels deeper on an emotional level. It’s intimate. It might seem weird to talk about intimacy if you’re on your own masturbating, but that’s the only word I can think of for it (is self-intimacy a thing?). Ultimately, it’s probably that intimacy that makes it so good.