3 ways prostate pleasure changed my sexuality

The reason I started this blog is that there is so much to say about prostate pleasure. When you first experience it, it’s not just like discovering a new kink or something. It’s much more transformative than that. It changes your perspective. Here are three ways that experiencing prostate pleasure has changed my sexuality.

1. I hardly ever ejaculate

I actually can’t remember when I last ejaculated – and I really don’t miss it. To be honest, I hardly even think about it. Occasionally it will occur to me and I will think: Wow, I can’t remember the last time I actually ejaculated. I’m still having (a lot of) orgasms, but they have become completely disconnected from ejaculating – part of the “rewiring” process. For me, a “real” orgasm now means a prostate orgasm. I still stroke my dick, but it’s foreplay before the real thing.

2. I masturbate differently

There was a time when, if I talked about masturbating, it meant jacking off just like it does for most guys. Now it means stimulating my prostate with a vibrator. I used to think of that as being the way that women masturbated. I thought toys for were girls! But now it’s how I masturbate too – which I love. (You can even get P-spot attachments for magic wands designed for women – maybe I’ll review one in future.)

3. Vulnerability turns me on

Before I discovered prostate pleasure, I didn’t associate vulnerability with sex. Whether I was with a partner or masturbating, I didn’t feel vulnerable. But male-receptive anal penetration is different. It’s all about vulnerability. You have to literally open yourself up to be penetrated – and it feels amazing in a completely different way than when you are penetrating or even jacking off. Anticipating that feeling turns me on in a different way too – it kinda makes me melt.