Prostate purism

I think of a dry prostate orgasm as a “pure” prostate orgasm. When you ejaculate while your prostate is being stimulated, it's more like a hybrid or blended penile/prostate orgasm. Just like a lot of women like clit and G-spot stimulation at the same time, a lot of men seem to like simultaneous penile and P-spot stimulation. But I've realized I am a prostate purist: I like P-spot stimulation on its own.

Don't get me wrong – I do like my dick being stroked. When I masturbate, I often start by stroking my dick. But as I've said before, it's become like foreplay. Before long, I am craving prostate stimulation – in fact it almost feels like stroking my dick is indirectly stimulating my prostate. Once my prostate is being directly stimulated, whether by a toy or fingers, penile stimulation becomes a distraction.

I've written before about how different kinds of orgasm get mixed up in porn and how I'd like to see more porn that actually focuses on the prostate rather than being all about the "money shot" (i.e. ejaculation). I think I may have slightly different preferences than a lot of other guys that like prostate play – both in terms of what I like to watch and what I like to do. For me, it's all about that pure prostate orgasm.