Cravin'

From left to right: Lelo Hugo, Tantus Prostate Play and Tantus Twist

It usually starts when I haven’t masturbated for a few days. You know how it is – you’re busy, your mind is on other things. But then I become more aware of my prostate. I can feel it more. I start to crave that feeling of being filled up. It’s like my prostate has a mind of its own. It wants that pressure on my spot – and it lets me know! I don’t always masturbate immediately. Sometimes I wait for a day or even two. But then it becomes more urgent. It’s like I need it.

The funny thing is, before I discovered prostate pleasure a couple of years ago, I never had this kind of craving for regular orgasms. Maybe some men do feel like they just desperately need to get off. But for me it was never like that. Don't get me wrong: I enjoyed sex. But it was always more about the intimacy with a partner. If I was single, I did sometimes jack off, but not that often – and I definitely never felt the urge in the way I now do for prostate stimulation.

People often say a prostate orgasm feels deeper than a regular orgasm – and it definitely does. But for me, at least, there is something else that is deeper about prostate pleasure. That powerful craving I feel seems to come from deeper inside me. When I give in to it and slide a vibrator or plug inside me, it is like it is fulfilling a deeper need – and that may be why it also feels like a deeper form of satisfaction than when I have a regular orgasm.