My first prostate orgasm

The first time I had a prostate orgasm was a couple of years ago when I tried a vibrator, the Tantus Prostate Play, for the first time. I've already written a separate review of the toy. In this post, I'll go into more depth on the experience itself. It is such a crazy feeling when you have your first prostate orgasm because it's all so unfamiliar and you are suddenly experiencing a totally different kind of sexual pleasure – it's exhilarating but also disorientating. I'll describe how it was for me.

Before trying the Prostate Play, I had never had anything bigger than my partner’s finger in my butt. So when it arrived I was excited but also a little nervous. I initially wondered if it was too big for a beginner and made sure to put lots of lube on the bulbous end and on my butt. Standing beside my bed, I reached between my legs from behind and pressed the tip against my hole. I was amazed at how easily it slid in. It felt kinda thrilling as the bulb and then the main shaft passed my sphincter. It made me semi-hard.

I laid down on the bed on my back, with a pillow underneath my back and my legs spread apart (a position that had been recommended in some articles I'd read), and got used to the feeling of the toy inside me. It was totally unlike anything I had experienced. Being on the receiving end of anal penetration requires a bit of a mental adjustment because of the association of butts with pooping – and, at the beginning, it really did feel like I needed to poop. It felt good, but not in a way that I associated with sexual pleasure. I needed to open up to a totally different kind of pleasure.

After I got used to the feel of the toy inside me, I started kinda tensing and relaxing my butt around it, which felt even better – it almost felt like it was moving in and out a little. It was initially a little confusing, because when I felt like I was pushing it out I was actually kinda pulling it deeper inside me. I wasn't really sure what was supposed to happen to my dick – was it supposed to get hard? It had initially made me semi-hard when I slid the vibrator in, but by this point, my dick was totally soft and I had completely forgotten about it.

When I turned the bullet vibe on, it immediately kinda took my breath away and I had to concentrate on breathing. But the vibration deep inside me felt soooo good. I laid back and tried to concentrate on the feelings. I tried stroking my dick at the same time but that actually felt like a distraction. What I was feeling in my ass was such a different kind of pleasure – totally different from what I felt in my dick, which until then was the only kind of sexual pleasure I knew – and I wanted to enjoy that.

I tried the different settings on the vibrator, which all felt good, but I wasn't quite sure what, if anything, was supposed to happen next. I had read that it can take a while to learn to have an orgasm from prostate stimulation. So after 20 minutes when I felt a bit exhausted, I pulled it out. The next morning, my butt was a little sore – but it was also like I was more conscious of the sensations down there than I had ever been before. I was excited to play with the Prostate Play some more and get more used to it. In fact, by the next evening, I was already craving that feeling of the vibrator inside me again.

This time, I was more relaxed and it felt great again as I slid it in. Before turning on the vibe I tried sitting on the side of the bed, which felt really good – I guess it was hitting a different spot. Then I laid back on the bed and turned on the vibe and tried different settings and experimented with what felt good. I think I was more relaxed this time and – this was the big difference – started giving in to that feeling of needing to poop. This time I felt more confident that that wasn't really what was happening, that the toy was still deep inside me, and that I wasn't going to push it out.

After what seemed like maybe 20 minutes I was about to stop again. But first I sat on the side of the bed again to see how that felt with the vibe on – at this point I had turned it up to fast. It must have hit my P-spot in that position because I suddenly started to feel something different. I relaxed even more and gave in to it and realized I was about to have my first prostate orgasm – and before I had time to process it, it happened. It felt like it does when I cum, except more intense and deeper inside me – and it just kept going, wave after wave. I was moaning out loud – which I never do when I jack off.

I must have been orgasming for two minutes. It felt like I was actually ejaculating – it is that same squirting feeling – but I looked down at my dick and it was still totally soft and there was no cum. A dry orgasm. In other words, it was just in my mind – the association of having an orgasm with cumming. I also didn't really know when to stop – unlike with a regular orgasm, a prostate orgasm can just go on and on. When I did finally pull it out, It still felt soooo good as the toy's curves and ridges slid through my butt – it actually made me want to slide it back in again.

The first word that came to mind when my partner asked me to describe the experience was “mind-blowing”. But the more I thought about it, the more I realized it was mind-blowing not just in terms of the intensity of the pleasure I felt and how different it was to what I had previously experienced, but also because it instantly changed so much of what I thought I knew about male sexuality. It suddenly made me realize that the center of my sexuality was not my dick but my prostate – and opened up a whole new world of pleasure.